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Here are 7 Lessons on "Search Inside Yourself" by Chade-Meng Tan: 1. Emotional Intelligence is Key: The book goes beyond traditional intelligence, emphasizing the importance of emotional intelligence (EI) for personal and professional success. It outlines the five key components of EI: self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills. 2. Mindfulness as a Tool: Mindfulness meditation is presented as a practical tool to cultivate EI. By learning to focus your attention and observe your thoughts and emotions without judgment, you gain self-awareness and improve your ability to regulate emotions. 3. Self-Compassion is Power: The book promotes self-compassion as a crucial aspect of self-care and emotional well-being. Accepting yourself with kindness and understanding, instead of harsh self-criticism, fosters resilience and motivation. 4. Understanding Biases: "Search Inside Yourself" explores cognitive biases that influence our thinking and decisio

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"Men and women are different, and our differences are not to be feared or changed, but understood and respected. By acknowledging and accepting our differences, we can create a more loving and harmonious relationship." 7 Lessons from Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by John Grayr:     1. Different Communication Styles: Men, according to Gray, tend to focus on problem-solving and "fixing" issues, while women often seek connection and emotional understanding. Recognizing these differences can improve communication.     2. Needs-Based Communication: Men often need "cave time" to withdraw and solve problems solo, while women may crave connection and reassurance. The book encourages fulfilling both needs within a relationship.     3. The Power of Listening: Men appreciate active listening, feeling heard and respected for their solutions. Women often find listening therapeutic and a way to express their emotions.     4. Men Give Love Through Actions, Wome

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"Socrates. A Greek philosopher. An enigmatic genius. A genius who gave a whole new norm to the Western philosophy. The standard set by him, his critical reasoning, his view on life and surrounding made him an admirable inspiration to many who came across his teachings, and also had accusers who eventually put him to trial and execution.      Socrates was born circa 470 BC in Athens, Greece. His father was a stone mason and sculptor, and his mother was a midwife. Being an ordinary Athenian, he received a basic Greek education. For many years he worked as a stone mason, before he dedicated his life to philosophy. He was married and had three children, none of whom he cared much of. His rest of the life went on to teach young boys on their intellectual development and their life. He believed in authentic knowledge, rather than only victory over his rival.      He was famous for questioning everything in life and the world. He would accept no vague answers, rather, he would ask only f

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10 lessons from the book "The Ten Types of Human" by Dexter Dias explores the different facets of human behavior and what drives us.  1. Understanding Human Nature: Human behavior is complex and multi-faceted. By understanding different types of behavior, we can better comprehend ourselves and others. 2. The Helper: Altruism is a fundamental aspect of human nature. Helping others not only benefits them but also brings us a sense of fulfillment and purpose. 3. The Perceiver of Pain: Empathy allows us to connect with others' suffering and motivates us to take compassionate actions. Recognizing and validating others' pain is crucial for emotional support. 4. The Nurturer: Caring for others, especially in a parental role, is deeply ingrained in human nature. This nurturing behavior is essential for the survival and development of future generations. 5. The Warrior: Humans have an inherent drive to protect themselves and their loved ones. Understanding the balance between

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18 COSTLY MISTAKES THAT HUSBANDS MAKE 1. WORKING SO HARD AT YOUR JOB/BUSINESS BUT NOT IN YOUR MARRIAGE Men, your company, your career, and your business are growing and flourishing because you lead them; your marriage will grow and flourish when you lead it and dedicate time to it. 2. THINKING THAT FLIRTING WITH OTHER WOMEN IS NOT CHEATING You may not physically sleep with other women, but emotionally cheating is also unfaithfulness. Receiving nude images and having phone intimacy with other women is also cheating. Talking suggestively and attracting temptations is also cheating. If you are a flirt, flirt with your wife. If you claim your wife is too rigid, treat her well, and she will respond to your kinky ways. She also wants intimate pleasure and to feel wanted. 3. BEING GENEROUS OUTSIDE AND STINGY AT HOME Don't be the husband who quickly says yes when other people ask for help, for your time and your money, but stingy to your wife and child/children. Your family comes first. Do

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“ REASONS WHY WOMAN GET ATTACHED TO A MAN AFTER S€X.” 1. Women naively believe what they hear.  The way to a woman is through her ears. For a man to sleep with a woman, he says what the woman wants to hear:  “You are the most beautiful woman I’ve ever met. You are so smart, focused, and intelligent.” This way, she doesn’t feel like he’s taking her for a fool. And whoops, she falls into his trap!  2. Women believe in love.  Outside marriage, men are just cheaters (irresponsible men). For men, there’s no love gained or lost. After sex, a man walks away with zero feelings. The game is over. She’s left confused and wounded. Women don’t easily slow down after intimacy.  3. Women are more emotional by nature.  The woman’s body releases volumes of oxytocin during intimacy. This is the hormone responsible for bonding. She naturally gets emotionally attached to the man she slept with. And the more time he takes with her, the more attached she becomes.  4. Women are nurturers by nature.  Women

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10 RULES OF SEX DURING DATING. 1. Don't sleep with a woman on the first day of seeing her naked body. Create an emergency and stop.  2. Don't sleep in a woman's house, whether it is your first night with her or the second or the last. Sleeping in her house is losing your power and control. 3. Use a condom on the first sex attempt. Use a condom every day you have sex until the day you decide to marry her. This is a MUST. Don't compromise on this.  4. The first sex should be during the daytime. This allows you to understand her sexual health and nature. 5. Talk vulgar deliberately. If she responds with vulgarity. End the relationship. 6. No sex messages on WhatsApp or text. No nudes. Your inbox should always be as clean as a whistle. 7. Have a HIV test together as early as possible in the relationship. Remember, this is not a ticket for raw sex. Some tests can turn out negative because of HIV treatment. This is called a false negative. 8. Find out if she is on any medicat